Being Missus - Part 1

The rebel in me was always very clear on one thing…

Life is too short to waste it on boring activities like cooking!!

"I will keep a full time  cook" I would tell my mom… and of course I will ensure that I can afford to keep one :)

I will once in a while try exotic stuff like pastas and pizzas…

And that is about it.

I also once thought that marrying a chef therefore would be a brilliant idea…

But either the rebel in me has died or being a Missus has changed me so much that

I am in love with my kitchen.
And the red masala box is my favorite item in the house.

My favourite app on my droid phone is the one that gives me all sort of recipes including the typical ones like 'vatli daal'!!

My last thought while sleeping each night is - what to cook next day morning...

And I actually tell my husband that we will carry tiffin on a picnic instead of eating out while he insists on the  later...

Yeah mom - you are reading your daughter's blog. No mistake there. And plz wipe those tears… :)

I guess having a proper full fledged kitchen alongwith a super cute hus-baand who patiently  praises/encourages every experiment of mine helps!

I don’t know if I have indeed discovered a new passion…or is it just an initial euphoria...

But I intend to enjoy it to the fullest while it lasts! :)

PS:  The droid app also has a feature wherein you can enter specific items in your kitchen and it will suggest recipes best suited using those!! Now how cool is that!! :) :) :)

Dear Blog,

6 months is a long time I know… and I am sorry… and… what? Of course I missed you! And thought about you so many times!

...Oh come on now... Its true!

Please believe me sweetheart… these past 6 months were the most important 6 months in my life!  It changed so many things!!

...and haven't I always come to you whenever I underwent any major change in my life?

But this time I did not...cause this time, though the change - I was not confused. I really wasn’t.

I know I know… I also come to you when I am not confused and just want to express how I feel!

But this time though I wanted to scream shout and paint the sky rainbow… I was also slightly scared and got a little superstitious (..yeah yeah despite the certainty)

But now all is well and therefore I am back :)

Will certainly give you more time… promise.

By the way… suddenly there are so many things / people / tasks I have to distribute my time amongst...and therefore priortize etc!

I now truly fully understand the importance of all the articles that spoke about time management, work-life balance etc…

And I now also understand and forgive people who suddenly lost touch after getting married…

I can totally understand why… :)

But Blog, I promise to keep you high on my priority list. Truly.

With luv,

ME!

Tipu sets on a journey to Ithaca!

Tipu set out on his journey to Ithaca.Merrily and happily he went on without any worries, free as a bird… 


On his way he came to pond Pristine... it was the most beautiful place he had ever seen in his life! There were ducks in it, beautiful flowers on its banks...The pond was full of rare colorful fish... it was heavenly indeed. 


He was elated!On its banks he set his tent... and took it for his home for a few days.He took care of it and loved it more than himself...Every flower and fish loved him and he loved them back… 


All was beautiful till came a gang of demons.They started to call the pond their own.They did not like Tipu’s presence nor the love for him... 


One day then from the bottom of the pond came up an ugly monster.He killed the flowers, the ducks and the fish and left the pond lifeless. 
The demons found a reason to blame Tipu. They said it was his fault that the monster stayed there.. that he should have taken care and not let it grow,it was Tipu’s fault the flowers are dead and so are the fish...Tipu, who was oh-so-broken already, did not fight back.  


The demons then removed the monster.They wanted to take it far away from the pond...


They asked Tipu to carry it, coz they said it was his fault after all.Tipu did not refuse for he was too broken… They put the beast on his back and asked him to go away, To leave his pond Pristine forever to never come back again.and to carry the monster all the way.. 


Today Tipu has come far away from the place he loved so dearlyStill missing it, still loving it.The monster too is still there…it sits on Tipu’s back all the time. Carrying the monster baggage makes Tipu oh-so-tired.It keeps him from enjoying any other beauty on his way…It reminds him constantly of pond Pristine… 


Wonder why he never put the monster down.Why did he ever agree to carry it at all?why did he succumb to those demons and take blame for no fault of his...?why did he waste his life carrying the monster on his back?not enjoying the beauty on his way...not singing merrily and happily as he previously did...but instead being gloomy and sad all the while… Did he deserve any of it? 


Its time for him to leave the monster here forever and move on...Something he should have done long back.its not too late though... It will be indeed so very light to walk without the baggage..to walk without the heavy beast on his back...to walk freely and without any pain...merrily as had done before he came to pond Pristine! 


and thus continue his journey towards Ithaca..may be find another new pond,as beautiful as his pond Pristine...